Pardon My Sexuality

This question has been on my mind for quite some time now. Why is it that women are forced to repress our sexuality, while it is the social norm for men to blatantly re-enforce their sexuality on a regular basis? Call me a liberal feminist if you want, but I do believe in gender equality.

We have already established that double standard exist. Now please join me as I raise my right arm to a 90 degree angle, isolate, then extend my middle finger, firmly! Yes, lets all do this with smiles on our faces to make this even more fun! Ok. Glad you have joined me. With that being said, can we now start embracing our sensuality ladies? Yes, I said LADIES We can still be respectable young ladies and embrace our sensuality at the same time. Unlike men, we can multi task (joke). I find it odd that when a young man speaks of his sexual experience, we ladies have to sit quiet and dilute the extent to which we have experience in order to remain in a position to be this guy's suitable mate. Why is that?

Are men intimidated by a woman who may have some experience? When I say experience, (I do not mean numbers)
Or is it that men like to have a sense of control over the sexual aspect the relationship for his ego's sake?
Can it be that men who choose this way of life are actually insecure?
Are they so afraid that their sexual capabilities may not be a up to par with a woman who is sexually experienced and has mastered the art of love making?
Or is he afraid she may compare him to a previous partner and declare him WACK?

Those are my questions which indirectly reflect my true opinion on the matter. I feel that men feel the need to have the upper hand in some situations, which can be ok at times. But in this situation, it is safe to say that a man's manhood is incorrectly associated with the capabilities of his penis. Therefore, he may feel the need to use his penis along with his sexual experience and history to dominate the female in order to defend his masculinity.

*SIDE NOTE: One's manhood is NOT just based off of his penis. However, it is sad that a woman's character is based solely on her vagina and the story she has to tell. It is if guys say, "Forget if she can cook, support my dreams and goals, compliment my character, make me laugh, and even kick it with me like one of the homies. I want to know how many sex partner's she's had, who they were, and how long she knew him before he smashed!" That repulses me. Yes, it is beneficial to know one's sexual history for your health sake, but sex alone does NOT make one's character, it is just one aspect. (food for thought)

I learned in my Human Sexuality class that women actually think about sex more than men. I did not need a class to teach me that. I am a woman, therefore I know. Men and women both live in the same world, together, yet separately. We both have hormones, we both have needs, we both have sexual urges and desires; yet only men can openly embrace them. I mean, lets keep it real guys, we watch the same porn you do. You know how you fantasize about a girl who wants to do freaky things like Roxy Reynolds, and maybe even Superhead? Well, there just may be a girl who naturally wants to do those things, not because she's "nasty" but because it is human nature to want to please your mate by sexual intercourse. That should not make a woman any less of a suitable and respectable mate. If a woman is just as sexual as you and HONEST with herself about it, congrats to her. There is no shame in that, it is 2010. Guys, do not shun your woman or judge her because she acts on her sexual urges like you do and is therefore "experienced" As a word of advice: embrace the freak, and you'd be one satisfied man.